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I finished reading the book quite some weeks back now, and here are the remaining quotes:

• The burden of happiness can only be relived by the balm of suffering.
• Real suffering is measured by what’s taken away from us.
• People always hurt us with their trust.
• A man must love his bear.
• She always told the truth, even when she was lying.
• Wealth and power were measured by the privacy that only money could buy and the solitude that only power could demand and enforce.
• I don’t know what frightens me more, the power that crushes us or our endless ability to endure it.
• Yes, what is it, Tariq? I’d asked him irritably. Oh, I’m sorry, he’d replied. Do you want to be lonely?
• A kings is a bad enemy, a worse friend and a fatal family relation.
• Some of the worst wrongs were caused by people trying to change things.
• Like everyone else in the world who smokes, I wanted to die as much as I wanted to live.
• The devil is in the details.
• She was beautiful, and she was just naive enough, just sanguine enough to stop sympathy slipping into pity.
• Silence is the tortured man’s revenge.
• You’re fucked. Your life is over.
• Prisons are the temples where devils learn to prey.
• Fear dries a man’s mouth, and hate strangles him. That’s why hate has no great literature: real fear and real hate have no words.
• Every risk we take contains a mystery that can’t be solved.
• The only victory that really counts in prison is survival.
• Cruelty is a kind of cowardice.
• Despotism despises nothing so much as righteousness in its victims.
• Evil is the root of all money.
• A secret isn’t a secret, unless keeping it hurts.
• If you make your heart into a weapon, you always end up using it on yourself.
• You don’t inform on people, not for any reason.
• It is possible to do the wrong things for the right reasons.
• We can only avoid chaos in the world of human affairs by having an agreed standard for the measure of a unit of morality.
• Happiness is a myth; it was invented to make us buy things.
• They were unshaven, unwashed, and unkempt in appearance. They were also intelligent, honest, and unconditionally loyal to one another.
• If I’d been a different man, a better man, I would’ve cried. And who knows, it might’ve made the difference.
• The moment was lost.
• Such is life.
• A man has to respect himself before he can respect anyone else.
• Can one act of genius allow us to forgive the hundred flaws and failures that bring it into being?
• She had to become a widow for life, before she was even married.
• There is nothing so depressing as good advice.
• We never feel or express any one emotion without feeling something of its opposite.
• I think I love him, in a kind of insane way, but I don’t trust him. Is that a horrible thing to say about the guy you stay with?
• Every virtuous act is inspired by a dark secret.
• Danger was one of the lances I used to kill the dragon of stress.
• We were red-lining our lives.
• Fighing to save a life is a better and more enduring reason than fighting to end one.
• The fully mature man or woman has about two seconds left to live.
• You can never tell what people have inside them until you start taking it away, one hope at a time.
• If we envy someone for the right reasons, we’re half way to wisdom.
• Personality and personal identity are in some ways like co-ordinates on the street map drawn by our intersecting relationships.
• Fate gives us all three teachers, three friends, three enemies, and three great loves in our lives.
• We lived out a life together in that kiss: we lived and loved and grew old together, and we died.
• Sometimes the worst thing you can do to a woman is to love her.
• The nothing that it gives you, the unfeeling emptiness it gives you, is sometimes all and everything you want. (it = herion)
• But I hadn’t asked the right question. I hadn’t asked about her. I’d asked about him.
• A good man is as strong as the right woman needs him to be.
• The end mirrors the beginning.
• One of the agonising truths for a battle media is that you pray as hard and almost as often for men to die as you pray for them to live.
• The best revenge, like the best sex, is performed slowly and with the eyes open.
• Negative space.
• It’s bad, loving someone you can’t forgive. It’s not as bad as loving someone you can’t have.
• Fate always gives you two choices: the one you should take, and the one you do.
• The cloak of the past is cut from patches of feeling, and sewn with rebus threads.
• The wheel had turned through one full revolution.
• There is no man, and no place, without war.
• Luck is what happens to you when fate gets tired of waiting.
• No matter what kind of game you find yourself in, no matter how good or bad the luck, you can change your life completely with a single thought or a single act of love.

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