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2005, Oct 10

In Search of a Job?

Filed under: Uncategorized — Hrishikesh @ 16:12

I had been to the Railway reservation counter on Sunday morning, and
on the way was accosted by a frustrated chap, with a small back pack. Looked
about 20ish. I had my earphones stuck deep in my ear, and if he spoke to me I
do not recollect, until he held my arm. I removed one of the pods, and glared
at him… He began in English:

“Brother, I am from Bangalore. I was brought here in search of a job, and
tricked.”

Oh no, not one of those again!

“I am seriously fucked up… I have no money, I have been staying on the bus
stand since the past four days. I don’t even have two bucks to pay for the
toilet.”

Gaaah!

“I have spoken to my mother, but she cannot come here because of her legs.”

Right. So now, what do I do? I ask him: “This is all fine, but how do I trust
you?”

He pulls out a bus ticket from his pocket and shows me. “This is my bus
ticket. See it shows the bus registration number as BA-xxx-xxxx.”

Hmmm, looks like a genuine case. I decided to help him. Looked in the wallet
for the smallest denomination note greater than 10. Found a fifty. Gave
him that.

“No, no, I don’t want that…” he said with tears in his eyes.

“Keep it, you’ll need it. Next time, make good decisions in life.”

That was all I said to him, and left. I did not want to get involved anymore. It just was not necessary. I had no time, and I had helped in the best manner
possible to me at that time, or so I felt.

This is the second time this has happened with me. I don’t know if it’s
written somewhere on my face. How come people pick me for this?

The first was with some chap who had had his wallet stolen. He had been to
Esselworld (yeah!) and had no money to go back home. He wanted 22 bucks for
the bus fare. I gave him those, after he showed me the FIR he had filed. It
did look genuine.

Later dad had asked me to confirm if he genuinely had used my money to buy a
ticket. He even told me to buy the ticket myself next time I meet someone like
him, just so that the person does not dupe ten different people with the same
story and get many multiples of those 22 bucks.

People actually do this kind of philanthropy. I have seen many a times people
buying vada-pavs for urchins on railway platforms who claim they have not
eaten since xx days. It’s much better this way, since they do not actually get
money, which could be fraudanty used for other purposes.

Anyway, back to the chap in question. I happened to meet him today again,
while rushing to college. This time, he was with his mom. He recognised me,
and with great emotional display introduced me to his mom. She had that look
in her eyes, which only moms can have. The guy was pretty devastated as such,
and burst into tears yet again…

I really had no time for this, a test was scheduled and I was running late. I
would have loved to know more about him, and how he landed up in this
scenario, but that is not how it was meant to be. I namasted his mom, shook
hands with him, told him to be careful the next time, and parted.

Maybe if some of my readers know where such people can be redirected, please
leave a comment.

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  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/5513182 Varun Rajkumar

    This is really bad….Though I myself have never indulged in such things…
    I remember my grandfather telling me.. about this guy he met at CST station.. who had come here from Chennai…for a job.He did not know Hindi and he was wandering here and there.. He found my Grandpa talking in tamil over the phone.. and then asked him to guide him through the procedures.My grandpa first brought him an unreserved ticket, he then gave him some money for the journey expenses.. and then helped him get on the train and sent him off…

    Well, when I asked him about how genuine this Guy was,He told me only one thing…. It’s all what the heart thinks at the moment…I felt like doing it and did it. End of story.

    It requires an heart to give something.. and nice to note that u have something below those strong ribs of yours…
    Great job.. man…

    on a lighter note though…Pehele baar LIfe main kuch accha kaam to kiya!!1

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/5513182 Varun Rajkumar

    This is really bad….Though I myself have never indulged in such things…
    I remember my grandfather telling me.. about this guy he met at CST station.. who had come here from Chennai…for a job.He did not know Hindi and he was wandering here and there.. He found my Grandpa talking in tamil over the phone.. and then asked him to guide him through the procedures.My grandpa first brought him an unreserved ticket, he then gave him some money for the journey expenses.. and then helped him get on the train and sent him off…

    Well, when I asked him about how genuine this Guy was,He told me only one thing…. It’s all what the heart thinks at the moment…I felt like doing it and did it. End of story.

    It requires an heart to give something.. and nice to note that u have something below those strong ribs of yours…
    Great job.. man…

    on a lighter note though…Pehele baar LIfe main kuch accha kaam to kiya!!1

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/8577481 SagYer

    I’ve had a similar experiences…

    Once, when i was in JC, i was travelling by bus early in the morning. A guy came and sat next to me. He showed me a Re. 1 coin and asked me to put in 2 more so that he could reach the station. I didnt quite like the guy, and i refused. He waited until the conductor came. Obviously, the conductor blasted at him. But by the time the conductor stopped the bus to make him get down, the station was only around 5-7 mins walking distance away.

    The second incident – Not so long back, maybe a few months ago, a guy, coincidently named Sagar who lives in the neighbouring building met me on the way home, around 15 mins walking distance away from home. He said that he had forgotten his wallet at home and needed Rs. 50, and that he would return it as soon as he reached home. I gave him the money. Sagar never came to return the money. I havent met him after that. “Rs. 50 akkal khate mein”?

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/8577481 SagYer

    I’ve had a similar experiences…

    Once, when i was in JC, i was travelling by bus early in the morning. A guy came and sat next to me. He showed me a Re. 1 coin and asked me to put in 2 more so that he could reach the station. I didnt quite like the guy, and i refused. He waited until the conductor came. Obviously, the conductor blasted at him. But by the time the conductor stopped the bus to make him get down, the station was only around 5-7 mins walking distance away.

    The second incident – Not so long back, maybe a few months ago, a guy, coincidently named Sagar who lives in the neighbouring building met me on the way home, around 15 mins walking distance away from home. He said that he had forgotten his wallet at home and needed Rs. 50, and that he would return it as soon as he reached home. I gave him the money. Sagar never came to return the money. I havent met him after that. “Rs. 50 akkal khate mein”?

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/5164138 Hrishikesh

    Had a discussion with dad today about the whole incident. He told me a lot of how things go about when foreigners are sighted by fradualent cases… Maybe that will be another blog post.

    But this one was definitely genuine.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/5164138 Hrishikesh

    Had a discussion with dad today about the whole incident. He told me a lot of how things go about when foreigners are sighted by fradualent cases… Maybe that will be another blog post.

    But this one was definitely genuine.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/7113161 Ankur Shukla

    yeah, something similar happened to me while travelling to my place from bangalore. Weird things do happen to people all the time, its sometime tht we are involved in them in some or the other ways…

    but… how can we trust someone is a tuff ques all of us face. We want to help, but cant just seem to get the whole story straight.. it feels gud from inside if the intended help is really a HELP.

    nice work dude!!

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/7113161 Ankur Shukla

    yeah, something similar happened to me while travelling to my place from bangalore. Weird things do happen to people all the time, its sometime tht we are involved in them in some or the other ways…

    but… how can we trust someone is a tuff ques all of us face. We want to help, but cant just seem to get the whole story straight.. it feels gud from inside if the intended help is really a HELP.

    nice work dude!!

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/3642543 Aditya

    bless you, hrishi.

    sagar – “if you lend someone fifty bucks, and you dont see that person again, it is worth it.”

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/3642543 Aditya

    bless you, hrishi.

    sagar – “if you lend someone fifty bucks, and you dont see that person again, it is worth it.”

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